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title: 'Ask from Daniel Mobile: How about when you almost drowned in the San Francisco
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- Age two near-drowning in San Francisco undertow with mother
- Wave taller than child pulled him under for thirty seconds
- Rescued by unknown person, left coughing and choking
- Resulting lifelong dislike of water
- Parallel river incident with half-brother Christopher in redwoods
summary: Speaker describes nearly drowning at age two or three in the San Francisco
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  under for roughly thirty seconds until an unknown person pulled him out coughing
  and choking, resulting in a lasting aversion to water. He briefly compares this
  to a later incident where his half-brother Christopher fell into a river during
  a redwoods trip and had to be rescued.
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- fear-of-water
- redwoods-trip
- half-brother
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# Question from Daniel Mobile

How about when you almost drowned in the San Francisco undertow as a child

## Your answer

This seems to be a pretty vivid memory of mine. I was only with my mom, so it was before Tony met Chuck or married Chuck, and we were out on the Oceanside of the San Francisco peninsula where it was a cloudy day. I remember that, and I couldn't have been more than. Two to three years old. Correct. It had to have been two years old because she met my dad pretty quickly and any case. Walk down to the waves, which probably weren't very big, but they were at least as tall as I was, and one of them. Hit me and drugged me into the undertow. Me quite a bit of time, maybe 30 seconds or so, and. Somehow somebody got to me and grabbed my arm and drugged me up, all coughing and choking, but nevertheless I have not taken well to water ever since then. Which reminds me that my brother. Christopher. No, he's my. Half brother Christopher. My dad had taken us. To the redwoods for a weekend probably, and Christopher stepped into part of the Rica river and lost his footing and fell in and. Somebody had to go fetch him out and so we all thought he almost drowned and then it was like, OK, that's the end of this trip, so we're all going home getting the van.